Not waving,but drowning...sometimes

I trust you, I trust pretty much everyone on my flist, and I've not posted a request for folk not to use the clicky buttons. Having said that, the number of people (generally younger folk) who can't even grasp that this could be a problem is quite scary - I know gay folk, trans folk, pagan folk, poly folk, many of whom don't want random comments to "out" them on FB where they may have family members or employers friended. I can see why some folk are running scared, when it would be so easy for LJ to just provide an opt-out or "disable" option.